Few people act as we intend for them to act. As entrepreneurs, designers, communicators, or professionals that interact with other humans (most of us), we start out with a notion of the way that people are going to react. In fact, the more time we spend thinking and talking about how they are going to react, the more headstrong we are that weâ€™ve nailed the approach. However, our self-selection bias gets in the way, and when others react differently we want to force our way.
An alternate approach is to ship. Use the best-known information, put it out in the world, observe, and adapt to the response.
The problem is that we donâ€™t like to adapt. By adapting, we allow the details of our creation to be interpreted and altered. In other words, we are out of control when we adapt. Itâ€™s scary to say in a meeting, â€œI donâ€™t know,â€ but sometimes that is the very best answer: â€œthey know, I donâ€™t.â€
Hereâ€™s a great example. Look at this menâ€™s room door. For whatever reason, the gentlemen that use this particular door, like to push it about a foot higher than the push plate. The plateâ€™s only purpose is to prevent the defacing of the door, but theseÂ men didnâ€™t want to push the door there.
We usually try to fix problems like this:
- Putting up signs telling people to do it the way we designed it.
- Fix the unintended consequence (by painting the door) but bitch about how stupid people are.
- Remove the plate altogether.
Or, we can simply adapt and move the plate to adapt to the behavior of its users. Flex. There are plenty of times to hold the uncompromising line, but when possible, flex. The audience knows, we guess.